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My Nemesis

By Charmaine Craig
My Nemesis by Charmaine Craig digital book - Fable

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From the acclaimed author of Miss Burma, longlisted for the National Book Award and the Women’s Prize for Fiction, comes an immersive and searing story of two women, their marriages, and the rivalry between them

Tessa is a successful writer who develops a friendship, first by correspondence and then in person, with Charlie, a ruggedly handsome philosopher and scholar based in Los Angeles. Sparks fly as they exchange ideas about Camus and masculine desire, and their intellectual connection promises more—but there are obstacles to this burgeoning relationship.

While Tessa’s husband Milton enjoys Charlie’s company on his visits to the East Coast, Charlie’s wife Wah is a different case, and she proves to be both adversary and conundrum to Tessa. Wah’s traditional femininity and subservience to her husband strike Tessa as weaknesses, and she scoffs at the sacrifices Wah makes as adoptive mother to a Burmese girl, Htet, once homeless on the streets of Kuala Lumpur. But Wah has a kind of power too, especially over Charlie, and the conflict between the two women leads to a martini-fueled declaration by Tessa that Wah is “an insult to womankind.” As Tessa is forced to deal with the consequences of her outburst and considers how much she is limited by her own perceptions, she wonders if Wah is really as weak as she has seemed, or if she might have a different kind of strength altogether.

Compassionate and thought-provoking, My Nemesis is a brilliant story of seduction, envy, and the ways we publicly define and privately deceive ourselves today.

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“If I had to sum up My Nemesis in one sentence: it’s a novel about how the stories we tell ourselves can become more dangerous than the truths we’re trying to avoid. At its core, it’s a study of envy, projection, intellectual arrogance, motherhood, and the quiet ways women judge one another. Tessa believes she’s fighting patriarchal expectations, yet she’s often the one reducing Wah, another woman, to simplistic stereotypes that fit her own narrative. Craig refuses to make either woman wholly right or wrong, and that’s where the novel shines. Unfortunately, I think I still hated every single character. Everyone is so relentlessly pretentious and self important that I found myself rolling my eyes through chunks of the book. Every conversation felt like an intellectual sparring match where someone was trying to prove they were the smartest person in the room. It was exhausting, but I also think that was exactly the point. Tessa is an exceptional unreliable narrator, not because she lies outright, but because she’s incapable of recognizing how her own ego, envy, and certainty distort the people around her. The real nemesis isn’t Wah; it’s the story Tessa has constructed about herself and everyone else.”
“There’s just something about literary fiction that explores complex relationships between friends and lovers that draws me in and refuses to let me go until I finish it. This one added a special layer of race, class, and gender politics to the mix and made for a layered and intriguing novel. The main character Tessa was… a lot. She’s a white memoirist who has been married twice and has a grown daughter who she’s been estranged from and is trying to form a connection with. She has strong feelings on feminism and the way some women express their femininity in a “soft” way. Her true thoughts on this are fully exposed when she calls Wah, the mixed race wife of the philosopher she’s been having an intellectual and emotional affair with, an “insult to womankind.” Tessa and Charlie’s (the philosopher) relationship annoyed me from the beginning. Their “meet-cute,” the constant idolization of Nietzsche on Charlie’s part and Camus on Tessa’s, the staying at each other’s houses from days on in….it couldn’t be me. Their conversations were almost always them flirting with each other (or Tessa trying to bait him into flirting with her), often times right in front of their spouses and children. Most times, they acted like they were the smartest and most important people in the room and all of their opinions were factual because two white men who have been dead for years said so. Tessa as an individual was a frustrating, yet entertaining character. Her ability to read people was nonexistent, and a lot of her actions screamed narcissism. One very interesting part of this whole story was Charlie never outright confirming he was attracted to Tessa or wanted her in a physical way. There were MANY points throughout where it may suggest he does, but Tessa is a very unreliable narrator as we come to find out. Her inability to read Wah and who she was clearly exposes that. The relationship she had with her daughter, Nora, gave jealous mom. She viewed her daughter the way she viewed Wah. Weak. Too feminine. These feelings are made clear to me near the middle of the book when Nora begins to form her own friendly relationship with Charlie. It’s more noticeable when you realize that Tessa spends a lot of time criticizing Wah’s motherhood to Htet, her Burmese adopted daughter, but fails to realize that she barely gives hers the time of day. Her self-righteousness ended up being her downfall. Not that I thought she was 100% the villain, (I’ll get to Charlie in a second) but seeing the consequences of her actions and having to live with that was a satisfying way to say “Hey, it’s ok for women to be different from you and you’re NOT always right.” Charlie ANNOYED the hell out of me too. His attraction to Tessa was never directly confirmed, but he disclosed a lot of annoyances about his marriage to another woman. I refuse to believe that he didn’t sense that Tessa was attracted to him, so him disclosing that automatically made her believe she had a chance with him. And that’s exactly what happened. Him telling her his regrets and mistakes throughout his marriage allowed Tessa to form an opinion on Wah before she even meets her properly and begin to compare herself to Wah. And it was truly the catalyst for what led Tessa to say that nasty sentence to Wah. I truly enjoyed this novel. It got my wheels turning and obviously I had a lot of thoughts on it. I can’t wait to give this a reread sometime in the future so I can pick up on a few more questionable points about the relationship between these three people. Poor Milton, Tessa’s husband who was an afterthought in this review just like he was an afterthought in Tessa’s life. He truly deserves better, but honestly idk after a little nugget about how their relationship started is revealed 🫠”

About Charmaine Craig

CHARMAINE CRAIG is the author of the novels Miss Burma, longlisted for the National Book Award and the Women’s Prize for Fiction, and The Good Men. Formerly an actor, she teaches in the program in fiction at UC Riverside and lives in Los Angeles.

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