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Buy Yourself the Damn Flowers: The self-love guide to growing, healing and learning to put yourself first

By Tam Kaur
Buy Yourself the Damn Flowers: The self-love guide to growing, healing and learning to put yourself first by Tam Kaur digital book - Fable

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I've been a hopeless romantic for as long as I can remember. I have always immersed myself in love stories - from films, tv series to books - longing for the day when I would grow up and be in a relationship. One day I would have my moment. You know, the moment at the airport, the moment in the rain, the moment with a boombox outside my bedroom window. Call me crazy, but I believed it would happen. And then I grew up...

A boyfriend who was very much still in love with his ex? CHECK
Dated a narcissist whose giant gestures of adoration came with control and manipulation? CHECK
Getting together with the popular guy, who turned out to be emotionally unavailable? CHECK

After a series of bad relationships, I knew things needed to change. I decided to focus on me and took myself on dates, bought myself flowers, and chose to spend my time doing the things I love.

Buy Yourself the Damn Flowers is a practical self-love guide that will help you learn how to cultivate a deep and lasting love for the person who matters you.

Tam x

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“IT WAS SO REPETITIVE 😮‍💨The writing style was not of a book but more of a script for a video. The sentences were too long. I’d give this book 4 stars if it wasn’t for the poor editing. I admire Tam and I watch her content regularly, I think she’s got all the practical answers. She knows what she’s talking about and I agreed with almost everything she said, like it has become one of my most annotated books. She has a lot of knowledge to share and I love that for her. My only issue with the book was the writing and the repetitiveness of it which can be understandable as this is a debut, but fair enough I think she did an excellent job, she already explains herself very well, but she desperately needed somebody to shorten her sentences, clear up small mistakes, specially word repetition and paragraph-sentence length. I had to read some sentences a couple times to really understand what she wanted to say. This is the editor’s responsibility, imo. Overall, would recommend without a doubt to any woman who needs it. It’s got all the answers and all the actions.”
“"But this is your first time going through life, so why place such harsh expectations on yourself?"”

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