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Between Men

By Eve Kosofsky Sedgwick
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First published in 1985, Between Men was a decisive intervention in gender studies, a book that all but singlehandedly dislodged a tradition of literary critique that suppressed queer subjects and subjectivities. With stunning foresight and conceptual power, Eve Kosofsky Sedgwick's work opened not only literature but also politics, society, and culture to broader investigations of power, sex, and desire, and to new possibilities of critical agency.

Illuminating with uncanny prescience Western society's evolving debates on gender and sexuality, Between Men still has much to teach us. With a new foreword by Wayne Koestenbaum emphasizing the work's ongoing relevance, Between Men engages with Shakespeare's Sonnets, Wycherley's The Country Wife, Sterne's A Sentimental Journey Through France and Italy, Hogg's The Private Memoirs and Confessions of a Justified Sinner, Tennyson's The Princess, Eliot's Adam Bede, Thackeray's The History of Henry Esmond, Esq., and Dickens's Our Mutual Friend and The Mystery of Edwin Drood, among many other texts. Its pathbreaking analysis of homosocial desire in Western literature remains vital to the future of queer studies and to explorations of the social transformations in which it participates.

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18 Reviews

3.5
““...in the presence of a woman who can be seen as pitiable or contemptible, men are able to exchange power and to confirm each other's value even in the context of the remaining inequalities in their power. The sexually pitiable or contemptible female figure is a solvent that not only facilitates the relative democratisation that grows up with capitalism and cash exchange, but goes a long way—for the men whom she leaves bonded together—toward palliating its gaps and failures.” I read snippets of this book long ago and decided it was time to read it fully now that I have, what do you call it, ~life experience~. The main argument put forth here is that “in any male-dominated society, there is a special relationship between male homosocial (including homosexual) desire and the structures for maintaining and transmitting patriarchal power”. Sedgwick analyses a variety of European and English texts across the centuries to show how male homosocial relations underpin and make up patriarchal institutions. ‘Homosocial’ is used not exactly in opposition to homosexual (as we see in the later chapters) but to denote a specific kind of male-male relationship that requires the structures of heterosexuality to cement the bonds between men. Women function as the ‘conduit’ or ‘solvent’ which allows men to dominate one another, impress one another, or tie their lives together (via marriage). The term used here is ‘triangulation’; when in the case of cuckoldry, this triangular structure denotes a hierarchy wherein the man who cuckolds the other is “clearly in ascendency.” This book also seems to be implying that it’s not just in the past, but that even now, so long as we live in inherited systems, male homosocial bonding desire will always be at the core of men’s behaviour—who they date/marry, how they court, how many times a week they visit the gym, how they flex their achievements, etc. This wasn’t too challenging but the text takes some effort to get through. I found it quite accurate even now iykwim ◡̈”
“I thought this was really interesting and compelling and insightful. And it took me FOREVER to read bc it was so goddamn dense :(”

About Eve Kosofsky Sedgwick

Eve Kosofsky Sedgwick (1950–2009) was Distinguished Professor of English at the Graduate Center, City University of New York. Her books include Tendencies; A Dialogue on Love; Touching Feeling: Affect, Pedagogy, Performativity; The Coherence of Gothic Conventions; and Epistemology of the Closet.

Wayne Koestenbaum is Distinguished Professor of English at the Graduate Center, City University of New York.

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